Apter

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• 網(wǎng)絡(luò)阿普特；阿普特爾；艾波特

例句

Dr Apter said one woman she spoke to began receiving messages from her mother-in-law-to-be two months before the wedding.

阿普特博士稱，一位受訪女性稱，她在結(jié)婚前兩個月就不斷地收到婆婆的來信。

"Offers to help are often perceived as criticism, " Apter said.

“提供幫助往往被看作是批評，”阿普特說。

Although she's a psychologist specializing in family relations, Apter admits that she has fallen into some common in-law traps herself.

雖然她是一個專業(yè)是家庭關(guān)系的心理學(xué)家，阿普特承認(rèn)，她已落入一些常見的親家陷阱里。

Assuming your daughter-in-law wants your advice. Most don't want to hear "This is what I did so this is what you should do, " says Apter.

假設(shè)你的媳婦需要你的咨詢。最不想聽到“我這樣做，你應(yīng)該這樣做的，”阿普特說。

It's the disappointment felt by both women that "gives these relationships their distinctive negative charge, " Apter says.

雙方都感到失望，“給予這些關(guān)系獨特的負(fù)面影響，”阿普特說。

As to sight, the expression is apter to distinguish the other side's mood , clue of the attitude.

相對目光而言，表情是更容易辨別對方心情、態(tài)度的線索。

Maybe she's not the world's best mother-in-law yet, but Apter's working on it.

也許她不是世界上最好的婆婆，但阿普特在努力。

"Legally, they're adults, but they're on the threshold, the doorway to adulthood, and they're not going through it, " Apter says.

“從法律上講，他們已經(jīng)是成年人了，但是他們仍在通向成人的門道口，無法走入其中，”Apter說。